“Is it? Some man = feminine, some women = masculine? “

Well, mengamati timeline. Memperhatikan real life. Beberapa teman seusiaku bahkan sudah mempersiapkan diri untuk menikah. “I AM GOING TO MARRIED THIS YEAR!”, that typical sentence.

Atau yang bahkan 3 tahun lebih muda sudah begitu gencar memimpikan pernikahan. Membayangkan pelaminan, ijab, and so on.

Nikah nikah dan nikah…

Well,

Beberapa adik kelas yang kuamati pun terasa lebih feminim Galau, mantan, gebetan, etc. Eeer… ok (Iya ini simple random sampling).

Ada yang lebih mengherankan. Some men out there are so insecure. Pernah jenguk temen cewek anter makanan doang, pure karena dia sakit, tiba-tiba cowoknya ngambek di Line. (Oh.
k…,then)

Otoh, (on the other hand…)

Beberapa wanita muda usia produktif justru berlagak  bak pria. Super sibuk. Having no time, ga pernah galau, more masculine. Tegas. Beberapa objek yang diamati pun, begitu berhati-hati membicarakan nikah.

“Is it? Some man = feminine, some women = masculine?

I just dunno what’s going on with this society.

Ok, now turn on the lights spotted on my life.

L’ Me? Sibuk skripsi, ke lab kerjain programming, socmed and online media savy, pelihara ikan, tata rumah. Kadang ikut kopdar community A, community B and so on. Just feel that I am just like a fork beetween so many spoons.

In one sentence, i just feels that i am so “mars”. So hard to resist. (A jerk? Icy blood, cold hearted. Am i?) When some men around just so soft, spoiled their woman with flirt, promises, and commitment.

Me? Having a big boost determination, hard work, and domination (sometimes). I really do passionate on what i do, on my current age. And marriage is currently 100th above issue on the list.

At some points,  i have some scenes on my life where i stand up at the front of a mirror and the other me just mock to someone on the other side: “Why you are so different?”

Atau guyonannya barangkali karena aku lebih mudah brewokan sekaligus kumisan dibanding pria pria seusiaku.

Author: nandonurhadi

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